To that end many Christians are beginning to practice a Christian form of the Jewish Seder feast, to celebrate all Jesus has done for us. Here is a guide for a messianic seder, with a one hour estimated length.
FORMAT:
Welcome – Opening Prayer
-Explain the Seder meal - The Seder meal is designed to remind us of the Israelites’ experience of Egyptian slavery, and how God redeemed them from Egypt. The Seder shows us that the Passover holiday is a commemoration of both suffering and joy.
As Christians we can celebrate this special ceremony, and let it remind us of how Jesus Christ became our Passover sacrifice, who delivers us from sin and judgment, and into acceptance, holiness and love. Tonight we will gather as the disciples did, on the night before Jesus was betrayed and crucified, to remember all Jesus did for us.
We pray today: “May all who are enslaved throughout the world come to know freedom. May all who are free, appreciate the blessings of abundance. And may all of us dwell in the house of God and give thanks for our good fortune as we celebrate the Seder together.”
From John 13: “It was just before the Passover Festival. Jesus knew that the hour had come for him to leave this world and go to the Father. Having loved his own who were in the world, he loved them to the end.
2 The evening meal was in progress, and the devil had already prompted Judas, the son of Simon Iscariot, to betray Jesus. 3 Jesus knew that the Father had put all things under his power, and that he had come from God and was returning to God”
To begin we light the candles. The woman of the house recites the following prayer:
Woman of the House: Blessed art Thou, O Lord our God, King of the universe, who has sanctified us with Thy Spirit and commanded us to shine brightly for Him.” (After candles are lit)
Symbolic Hand-Washing
Urchatz (oor-KHAHTS (oor-KHATS))
John 13:4-5 “so he got up from the meal, took off his outer clothing, and wrapped a towel around his waist. 5 After that, he poured water into a basin and began to wash his disciples’ feet, drying them with the towel that was wrapped around him.”
Pour water from a cup once on each hand over a sink or basin, declaring: “Christ bless you today”
Older Daughter: (goes to the door and opens it for a moment as a sign that the poor and lonely are welcome at our table and in our hearts. Welcome! Welcome! All: (Stand for a moment as a sign of respect for the poor, the helpless the homeless, the homebound and the lonely.)
Kiddush, First Cup: The Cup of Sanctification
Next is a blessing recited over the first cup, the Cup of Sanctification (also called the Cup of Blessing). This first cup is meant to sanctify—to set apart—the rest of the evening as a holy occasion. We fill the cup until it overflows, as in Jewish tradition a full cup is a symbol of joy.
From Psalm 23: “My cups overflows”
Passover moves us to rejoice and celebrate God’s goodness
to His people. As a symbol of freedom, we drink comfortably leaning to the left.
Leader recites: “Blessed art Thou, O Lord our God, King of the universe, Creator of the fruit of the vine.”
The Questions:
(youngest in the room reads)
Why is this night different from all the other nights?
In what ways do you find this night different?
In 4 ways do I find this night different
On all other nights we may eat chametz and matzah but on this night, only matzah.
On all other nights we eat many vegetables, but on this night only maror.
On all other nights, we don’t dip even once, but on this night we dip twice.
On all other nights, we eat either sitting up or reclining, but on this night, we all recline.”
Leader: ‘We were slaves to Pharaoh in Egypt, and God brought us out with a strong hand and an outstretched arm. And if God had not brought our ancestors out of Egypt, we and our children and our children’s children would still be subjugated to Pharaoh in Egypt.”
Leader: “We too were once slaves to sin, and God brought us out with his strong hand of mercy, Jesus Christ, and an outstretched arm of forgiveness. If God had not sent Jesus, we and our ancestors and our children and our children’s children would still be subjugated to Satan in the grips of sin.”
Psalm 114
1 When Israel came out of Egypt,
Jacob from a people of foreign tongue,
2 Judah became God’s sanctuary,
Israel his dominion.
3 The sea looked and fled,
the Jordan turned back;
4 the mountains leaped like rams,
the hills like lambs.
5 Why was it, sea, that you fled?
Why, Jordan, did you turn back?
6 Why, mountains, did you leap like rams,
you hills, like lambs?
7 Tremble, earth, at the presence of the Lord,
at the presence of the God of Jacob,
8 who turned the rock into a pool,
the hard rock into springs of water.
Psalm 2:7-12 I will proclaim the Lord’s decree:
He said to me, “You are my son;
today I have become your father.
8 Ask me, and I will make the nations your inheritance,
the ends of the earth your possession.
9 You will break them with a rod of iron[b];
you will dash them to pieces like pottery.”
10 Therefore, you kings, be wise;
be warned, you rulers of the earth.
11 Serve the Lord with fear
and celebrate his rule with trembling.
12 Kiss his son, or he will be angry
and your way will lead to your destruction,
for his wrath can flare up in a moment.
Blessed are all who take refuge in him.”
Serve the flat bread.
We remember with great thankfulness, that Jesus gathered with his disciples in the upper room: “22 While they were eating, Jesus took bread, and when he had given thanks, he broke it and gave it to his disciples, saying, “Take it; this is my body.”
Taste the bread, it reminds us that when the Israelites prepared to leave Egyptian slavery for the promised land they could not make normal bread, but they made flat bread, to carry with them in their bags more easily. And I want you to break the bread before you eat it. It reminds us that Jesus Christ body had to be broken for us, broken to give us new life, broken because of our sins, broken to give us wholeness. Take it and eat.
Serve the Horseradish.
Horseradish (bitter herbs) Taste the bitter herbs that remind us of the bitter affliction of slavery in Egypt. And our past slavery to sin before Christ saved us.
2nd Cup - The Cup of Deliverance/Plagues - "I will deliver you"
This cup reminds us of the deliverance of God, though we suffered in the bitterness of sin and brokenness, God came to us, to begin to rescue us, and deliver us. Think about how he did it in your own life.. as we drink
“Blessed are You, Lord our God, King of the Universe, who creates the fruit of the vine, who delivered us and continues to deliver us from the slavery of sin. Amen”
Serve the Parsley with salt water to dip in.
Taste the parsley dipped in salt water. Taste it remember the bitter tears of God’s people shed when they were enslaved. And it reminds us today of the bitter tears of our slavery to sin and death, before Jesus saved us. It reminds us of the tears Jesus wept in the garden of Gethsemane. And the tears of our afflictions as we walk the road of Jesus in this life, carrying our crosses daily.
Serve the Haroseth.
Taste the haroseth. The mud the Israelite slaves had to use to make bricks to build the wealth of Egypt for the pharaoh. It also reminds us as Christians of the dust that we came from, the dirt of sin that we once dwelled in, and how Jesus saved us from the mud and filth of sin through which we deserved destruction.
Present the bone. (The lamb)
View the bone, hold it. It represents the Passover lamb, that was slaughtered by the Israelites on the night that the angel of death came throughout Egypt, killing the first born sons of the Egyptians, but passing over the doors of those who had slaughtered the Passover lamb and placed it's blood on their doors.
In the same way Jesus became our Passover lamb so that the wrath of God would Passover us, because we are washed in the blood of Jesus. Not a single bone of Jesus was broken when he was nailed to the cross.
3rd cup - Cup 3: The Cup of Redemption - "I will redeem you"
Jesus said: 24 “This is my blood of the covenant, which is poured out for many,” he said to them. 25 “Truly I tell you, I will not drink again from the fruit of the vine until that day when I drink it new in the kingdom of God.” -Mark 14:24-25
“Blessed are you Lord our God, King of the Universe, who provides us the blood of your son Jesus Christ, for the forgiveness of our sins and the redemption of our souls.”
Serve the eggs.
Taste the egg, it reminds us of springtime, the springtime of a new day for Israel as God led them out of Egypt and toward the promised land, a land flowing with milk and honey. And as Christians it reminds us of new life, because we have been born again, like a chick is born, born new, of the Holy Spirit in Christ Jesus our savior. It reminds us of the empty tomb, that Jesus Christ rose again from the grave to give us new life.
4th cup - Jesus 2nd coming - Cup 4: The Cup of Hope - "I will take you"
Welcoming Elijah The fourth and final cup of wine is now filled. An additional cup is then filled and set aside for the prophet Elijah (Eliyahu).
The fourth cup, we celebrate the hope of the second coming of Jesus Christ, as it says “I will take you.” Jesus will come, and take us to heaven one day soon.
The oldest goes and opens the door, and says, “Maranatha, come Lord Jesus.”
“Blessed are you Lord our God, who sends your Son again to defeat the devil and reward your people with eternal life!”
Dayyenu (closing ceremony)
Pronounced dah-yeh-noo, meaning,”It would have been enough.”
All stand with cups and take a sip after each response.
Presider: Had God just saved us from slavery and not taken care of us in the wilderness…
All; Dayyenu, Dayyenu. It would’ve been enough.
Had He just fed us with manna and not made us His chosen people.
All: Dayyenu, Dayyenu. It would’ve been enough.
Had He given us kings to lead us and not promised a Messiah.
All: Dayyenu, Dayyenu. It would’ve been enough.
Had He sent prophets and angels and not His only Son.
All: Dayyenu, Dayyenu. It would’ve been enough.
Had Jesus just instructed us and not healed our infirmities.
All: Dayyenu, Dayyenu. It would’ve been enough.
Had Jesus healed our infirmities and not died for our sins.
All: Dayyenu, Dayyenu. It would’ve been enough.
Had He died for our sins but not risen to free us from death.
All: Dayyenu, Dayyenu. It would’ve been enough.
Had He freed us from death and not sent His Holy Spirit.
All: Dayyenu, Dayyenu. It would’ve been enough.
Had He sent His Spirit and not promised to be with the Church
All: Dayyenu, Dayyenu. It would’ve been enough.
Had he promised to be with the Church and not set a place for us at His eternal supper.
All: Dayyenu, Dayyenu, It would’ve been enough.
Had he promised to set a place us at His eternal supper, but not promised to come again to get us.
All: Dayyenu, Dayyenu, It would’ve been enough.
Yet he did all of this, and more, promising us a place in the new heavens and new Earth, praise the Lord! Maranatha, come Lord Jesus!
All: Dayyenu, Dayyenu, it is more than enough!
Closing Prayer:
Thank you God, for all the blessings you have bestowed upon us! You led us out of Egypt, slavery, and oppression. You brought the plagues against the Egyptians, slew their firstborn, and brought us their wealth.
You split open the red sea, then drowned our oppressors. Thank you for taking care of us in the desert for 40 years. You fed us manna, gave us sabbath, then brought us to mount Sinai to give us the Torah and your commandments. Thank you, oh God, for bringing us to the Land of Israel, making us a great nation.
And thank you God for sending Jesus Christ, born to the virgin Mary. Thank you God for how he healed the sick and the lame. Thank you God that he spoke the truth, and gave us bread from heaven, his own flesh and blood. Thank you that he was crushed for us on the cross, to remove our sins, and give us new life. Thank you for the Holy Spirit who dwells with us now. Thank you that Jesus Christ will return to set up his kingdom on this Earth one day soon.
FORMAT:
Welcome – Opening Prayer
-Explain the Seder meal - The Seder meal is designed to remind us of the Israelites’ experience of Egyptian slavery, and how God redeemed them from Egypt. The Seder shows us that the Passover holiday is a commemoration of both suffering and joy.
As Christians we can celebrate this special ceremony, and let it remind us of how Jesus Christ became our Passover sacrifice, who delivers us from sin and judgment, and into acceptance, holiness and love. Tonight we will gather as the disciples did, on the night before Jesus was betrayed and crucified, to remember all Jesus did for us.
We pray today: “May all who are enslaved throughout the world come to know freedom. May all who are free, appreciate the blessings of abundance. And may all of us dwell in the house of God and give thanks for our good fortune as we celebrate the Seder together.”
From John 13: “It was just before the Passover Festival. Jesus knew that the hour had come for him to leave this world and go to the Father. Having loved his own who were in the world, he loved them to the end.
2 The evening meal was in progress, and the devil had already prompted Judas, the son of Simon Iscariot, to betray Jesus. 3 Jesus knew that the Father had put all things under his power, and that he had come from God and was returning to God”
To begin we light the candles. The woman of the house recites the following prayer:
Woman of the House: Blessed art Thou, O Lord our God, King of the universe, who has sanctified us with Thy Spirit and commanded us to shine brightly for Him.” (After candles are lit)
Symbolic Hand-Washing
Urchatz (oor-KHAHTS (oor-KHATS))
John 13:4-5 “so he got up from the meal, took off his outer clothing, and wrapped a towel around his waist. 5 After that, he poured water into a basin and began to wash his disciples’ feet, drying them with the towel that was wrapped around him.”
Pour water from a cup once on each hand over a sink or basin, declaring: “Christ bless you today”
Older Daughter: (goes to the door and opens it for a moment as a sign that the poor and lonely are welcome at our table and in our hearts. Welcome! Welcome! All: (Stand for a moment as a sign of respect for the poor, the helpless the homeless, the homebound and the lonely.)
Kiddush, First Cup: The Cup of Sanctification
Next is a blessing recited over the first cup, the Cup of Sanctification (also called the Cup of Blessing). This first cup is meant to sanctify—to set apart—the rest of the evening as a holy occasion. We fill the cup until it overflows, as in Jewish tradition a full cup is a symbol of joy.
From Psalm 23: “My cups overflows”
Passover moves us to rejoice and celebrate God’s goodness
to His people. As a symbol of freedom, we drink comfortably leaning to the left.
Leader recites: “Blessed art Thou, O Lord our God, King of the universe, Creator of the fruit of the vine.”
The Questions:
(youngest in the room reads)
Why is this night different from all the other nights?
In what ways do you find this night different?
In 4 ways do I find this night different
On all other nights we may eat chametz and matzah but on this night, only matzah.
On all other nights we eat many vegetables, but on this night only maror.
On all other nights, we don’t dip even once, but on this night we dip twice.
On all other nights, we eat either sitting up or reclining, but on this night, we all recline.”
Leader: ‘We were slaves to Pharaoh in Egypt, and God brought us out with a strong hand and an outstretched arm. And if God had not brought our ancestors out of Egypt, we and our children and our children’s children would still be subjugated to Pharaoh in Egypt.”
Leader: “We too were once slaves to sin, and God brought us out with his strong hand of mercy, Jesus Christ, and an outstretched arm of forgiveness. If God had not sent Jesus, we and our ancestors and our children and our children’s children would still be subjugated to Satan in the grips of sin.”
Psalm 114
1 When Israel came out of Egypt,
Jacob from a people of foreign tongue,
2 Judah became God’s sanctuary,
Israel his dominion.
3 The sea looked and fled,
the Jordan turned back;
4 the mountains leaped like rams,
the hills like lambs.
5 Why was it, sea, that you fled?
Why, Jordan, did you turn back?
6 Why, mountains, did you leap like rams,
you hills, like lambs?
7 Tremble, earth, at the presence of the Lord,
at the presence of the God of Jacob,
8 who turned the rock into a pool,
the hard rock into springs of water.
Psalm 2:7-12 I will proclaim the Lord’s decree:
He said to me, “You are my son;
today I have become your father.
8 Ask me, and I will make the nations your inheritance,
the ends of the earth your possession.
9 You will break them with a rod of iron[b];
you will dash them to pieces like pottery.”
10 Therefore, you kings, be wise;
be warned, you rulers of the earth.
11 Serve the Lord with fear
and celebrate his rule with trembling.
12 Kiss his son, or he will be angry
and your way will lead to your destruction,
for his wrath can flare up in a moment.
Blessed are all who take refuge in him.”
Serve the flat bread.
We remember with great thankfulness, that Jesus gathered with his disciples in the upper room: “22 While they were eating, Jesus took bread, and when he had given thanks, he broke it and gave it to his disciples, saying, “Take it; this is my body.”
Taste the bread, it reminds us that when the Israelites prepared to leave Egyptian slavery for the promised land they could not make normal bread, but they made flat bread, to carry with them in their bags more easily. And I want you to break the bread before you eat it. It reminds us that Jesus Christ body had to be broken for us, broken to give us new life, broken because of our sins, broken to give us wholeness. Take it and eat.
Serve the Horseradish.
Horseradish (bitter herbs) Taste the bitter herbs that remind us of the bitter affliction of slavery in Egypt. And our past slavery to sin before Christ saved us.
2nd Cup - The Cup of Deliverance/Plagues - "I will deliver you"
This cup reminds us of the deliverance of God, though we suffered in the bitterness of sin and brokenness, God came to us, to begin to rescue us, and deliver us. Think about how he did it in your own life.. as we drink
“Blessed are You, Lord our God, King of the Universe, who creates the fruit of the vine, who delivered us and continues to deliver us from the slavery of sin. Amen”
Serve the Parsley with salt water to dip in.
Taste the parsley dipped in salt water. Taste it remember the bitter tears of God’s people shed when they were enslaved. And it reminds us today of the bitter tears of our slavery to sin and death, before Jesus saved us. It reminds us of the tears Jesus wept in the garden of Gethsemane. And the tears of our afflictions as we walk the road of Jesus in this life, carrying our crosses daily.
Serve the Haroseth.
Taste the haroseth. The mud the Israelite slaves had to use to make bricks to build the wealth of Egypt for the pharaoh. It also reminds us as Christians of the dust that we came from, the dirt of sin that we once dwelled in, and how Jesus saved us from the mud and filth of sin through which we deserved destruction.
Present the bone. (The lamb)
View the bone, hold it. It represents the Passover lamb, that was slaughtered by the Israelites on the night that the angel of death came throughout Egypt, killing the first born sons of the Egyptians, but passing over the doors of those who had slaughtered the Passover lamb and placed it's blood on their doors.
In the same way Jesus became our Passover lamb so that the wrath of God would Passover us, because we are washed in the blood of Jesus. Not a single bone of Jesus was broken when he was nailed to the cross.
3rd cup - Cup 3: The Cup of Redemption - "I will redeem you"
Jesus said: 24 “This is my blood of the covenant, which is poured out for many,” he said to them. 25 “Truly I tell you, I will not drink again from the fruit of the vine until that day when I drink it new in the kingdom of God.” -Mark 14:24-25
“Blessed are you Lord our God, King of the Universe, who provides us the blood of your son Jesus Christ, for the forgiveness of our sins and the redemption of our souls.”
Serve the eggs.
Taste the egg, it reminds us of springtime, the springtime of a new day for Israel as God led them out of Egypt and toward the promised land, a land flowing with milk and honey. And as Christians it reminds us of new life, because we have been born again, like a chick is born, born new, of the Holy Spirit in Christ Jesus our savior. It reminds us of the empty tomb, that Jesus Christ rose again from the grave to give us new life.
4th cup - Jesus 2nd coming - Cup 4: The Cup of Hope - "I will take you"
Welcoming Elijah The fourth and final cup of wine is now filled. An additional cup is then filled and set aside for the prophet Elijah (Eliyahu).
The fourth cup, we celebrate the hope of the second coming of Jesus Christ, as it says “I will take you.” Jesus will come, and take us to heaven one day soon.
The oldest goes and opens the door, and says, “Maranatha, come Lord Jesus.”
“Blessed are you Lord our God, who sends your Son again to defeat the devil and reward your people with eternal life!”
Dayyenu (closing ceremony)
Pronounced dah-yeh-noo, meaning,”It would have been enough.”
All stand with cups and take a sip after each response.
Presider: Had God just saved us from slavery and not taken care of us in the wilderness…
All; Dayyenu, Dayyenu. It would’ve been enough.
Had He just fed us with manna and not made us His chosen people.
All: Dayyenu, Dayyenu. It would’ve been enough.
Had He given us kings to lead us and not promised a Messiah.
All: Dayyenu, Dayyenu. It would’ve been enough.
Had He sent prophets and angels and not His only Son.
All: Dayyenu, Dayyenu. It would’ve been enough.
Had Jesus just instructed us and not healed our infirmities.
All: Dayyenu, Dayyenu. It would’ve been enough.
Had Jesus healed our infirmities and not died for our sins.
All: Dayyenu, Dayyenu. It would’ve been enough.
Had He died for our sins but not risen to free us from death.
All: Dayyenu, Dayyenu. It would’ve been enough.
Had He freed us from death and not sent His Holy Spirit.
All: Dayyenu, Dayyenu. It would’ve been enough.
Had He sent His Spirit and not promised to be with the Church
All: Dayyenu, Dayyenu. It would’ve been enough.
Had he promised to be with the Church and not set a place for us at His eternal supper.
All: Dayyenu, Dayyenu, It would’ve been enough.
Had he promised to set a place us at His eternal supper, but not promised to come again to get us.
All: Dayyenu, Dayyenu, It would’ve been enough.
Yet he did all of this, and more, promising us a place in the new heavens and new Earth, praise the Lord! Maranatha, come Lord Jesus!
All: Dayyenu, Dayyenu, it is more than enough!
Closing Prayer:
Thank you God, for all the blessings you have bestowed upon us! You led us out of Egypt, slavery, and oppression. You brought the plagues against the Egyptians, slew their firstborn, and brought us their wealth.
You split open the red sea, then drowned our oppressors. Thank you for taking care of us in the desert for 40 years. You fed us manna, gave us sabbath, then brought us to mount Sinai to give us the Torah and your commandments. Thank you, oh God, for bringing us to the Land of Israel, making us a great nation.
And thank you God for sending Jesus Christ, born to the virgin Mary. Thank you God for how he healed the sick and the lame. Thank you God that he spoke the truth, and gave us bread from heaven, his own flesh and blood. Thank you that he was crushed for us on the cross, to remove our sins, and give us new life. Thank you for the Holy Spirit who dwells with us now. Thank you that Jesus Christ will return to set up his kingdom on this Earth one day soon.
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